Chapter 29; Twenty Nine & Feeling Fine

Friday 26th January 2024, my 29th Birthday and entering the final year of my twenties!

Waking up on Friday morning, it was a gloriously sunny day with clear blue skies and a crisp winters chill in the air as I took my morning walk.

I was working from home for the day, so I decided to move to the sofa for the afternoon and put ‘The Summer I Turned Pretty’ on as I enjoyed my coffee and answered emails.

Once 5pm rolled around and work was wrapped up for the week, I got myself glammed up and ready for an evening of celebrations.

My Birthday fit was a pair of flared tailored black trousers from Zara, a dusty pink bandeau also from Zara, my silk Le Scarf neckerchief, a cropped nude cardigan with gold buttons, my ASOS lace up maroon heels, plenty of gold jewellery to accessorise, a vintage Jaegar green oversized blazer to keep me warm and my Sandro velvet green handbag to complete the look.

At 6pm I went to our local pub for a drink with my Dad, where they gave me a glass of bubbles on the house and even brought out a Happy Birthday brownie.

We then had 8:30pm reservations at The Ivy Asia in Guildford, so my boyfriend kindly drove me and my parents there after we finished catching up with friends at the pub.

I always love visiting The Ivy Asia with its opulent interiors and buzzing atmosphere, especially on a Friday night.

We started with duck pancakes for the table before ordering a number of their smaller sharer plates.

We had all sorts of dishes from spicy tuna sushi rolls and king prawn skewers, to Korean fried chicken bites and claypot chickpea pepper curry. Every mouthful was so delicously flavoursome and my parents even said it was the best Asian meal they’d ever had!

Saturday morning we got out early to go to Bicester Village designer outlet in Oxford.

The shopping day cute and cosy look was a pair of Stradivarius blue flared jeans, an off shoulder brown jumper, my platform Ugg boots, an earthy tone wool scarf which I got for my Birthday, my Coach signature print cross body bag, a faux fur black Ugg coat and my favourite khaki baker boy hat from Mango.

Being a weekend, the shops were quite busy and unlike my previous visit to Bicester, there wasn’t much that was particularly jumping out at me.

We couldn’t leave empty handed though and I needed a Birthday gift from my boyfriend, so I was thrilled to find a the perfect gold ring from Monica Vinader to add to my jewellery collection.

Later that evening we were invited over to my parents house with my brother, his wife and my adorable niece Layla who I had lots of cuddles with, I just love being an Auntie!

My mum cooked her famous Spaghetti Bolognese and I did what I do best making a big salad of rocket, cherry tomatoes, avocado, parmesan shavings and balsamic vinegar. Good company, home cooked food and divine red wine, this made me a very happy girly.

Before I knew it, Sunday was here and I spent the afternoon with more family including my other darling niece and my wonderful Grandma. This card from my sister was brilliant, it’ll be a right laugh trying those poses next time I’m having a cocktail.

So that concludes my 29th Birthday celebrations and I couldn’t be more grateful of where I am at this time in my life. I want to embrace this final year of my twenties and look forward to another 12 months of growth, learning and achievements; cheers to chapter 29 ❤

Winter Lookbook; Four Seasonal Fits

Winter season is all about the oversized coats and layering with jumpers, shirts and scarves, not to mention the choice of cute hats which I’m a sucker for; I just love a hat moment! This lookbook demonstrates how I would style my outfit for four different occasions this season, from a winter walk and running errands, to drinks at the pub and cosy date nights with my boyfriend or the ladies. Whilst I’m a summer girl at heart, Winter brings with it a whole new dimension to my wardrobe as I get to experiment with knits, oversized fits and statement coats which take centre stage this time of year. Keep reading for outfit details of each look.

Outfit #1 Running Errands

Camel tailored trousers – H&M

White fluffy polo neck vest – Cider

Stone trench coat – H&M

Knitted beanie hat – Ganni

Platform boots – Ugg

Cross body tan bag – Coach

Brown leather gloves – H&M

Gold signature logo ring (worn throughout) – Celine

Gold dome ring (worn throughout) – Cali Tiger

Gold signet ring (worn throughout) – Cinco

Topaz stone gold ring (worn throughout) – Vintage

Gold ear cuff (worn throughout) – Astrid & Miyu

Gold chain ring necklace – Vintage

Gold hoop earrings – ASOS Design

Outfit #2 Date Night

Black straight cut jeans – NEUW Denim

Striped off shoulder sweater – ASOS Design

Black cropped aviator coat – Zara

Camel wool scarf – Zara

Black heeled chelsea boots – Windsor Smith

Green velvet chain handbag – Senso

Blue tartan bow worn in hair – Fabric Shop

Gold signature logo ring (worn throughout) – Celine

Gold dome ring (worn throughout) – Cali Tiger

Gold signet ring (worn throughout) – Cinco

Topaz stone gold ring (worn throughout) – Vintage

Gold ear cuff (worn throughout) – Astrid & Miyu

Gold chain statement necklace – Abbott Lyon

Gold twist detail hoop earrings – Cali Tiger

Outfit #3 Winter Walk

Black skinny ripped jeans – Topshop

One sleeve tie waist sweater – NA-KD

Green oversized trench coat – Missguided

Check print scarf – Zara

Khaki wool baker boy hat – Mango

Maroon chelsea boots – Soletrader 

Cross body tan bag – Coach

Gold signature logo ring (worn throughout) – Celine

Gold dome ring (worn throughout) – Cali Tiger

Gold signet ring (worn throughout) – Cinco

Topaz stone gold ring (worn throughout) – Vintage

Gold ear cuff (worn throughout) – Astrid & Miyu

Gold chain ring necklace – Vintage

Gold chain heart necklace – Vintage

Gold hoop earrings – ASOS Design

Outfit #4 Pub Drinks

Blue vintage style flared jeans – Stradivarius

White pearl button sweater – ASOS Design

Black fur teddy coat – Ugg

Brown knitted beret hat – Urban Outfitters

Rusty brown square toe boot heels – ASOS Design

Green velvet chain handbag – Senso

Gold signature logo ring (worn throughout) – Celine

Gold dome ring (worn throughout) – Cali Tiger

Gold signet ring (worn throughout) – Cinco

Topaz stone gold ring (worn throughout) – Vintage

Gold ear cuff (worn throughout) – Astrid & Miyu

Gold chain ring necklace – Vintage

Gold chain coin necklace – Cinco

Gold hoop earrings – ASOS Design

Gold chain bracelet – Astrid & Miyu

Brown strap black face watch – Daniel Wellington

Cosy Season; Warming Fires, Home Cooked Dinners & Long Date Nights In

Happy Sunday! It’s been another cosy winter weekend spent snuggled on the sofa watching movies, enjoying warming cups of tea and taking time in the kitchen to cook hearty, nutritious meals. As we find ourselves in this coldest part of the year, I embrace the slower pace of life and really appreciate the small things like getting wrapped up and heading for a drink at the local pub on a Friday night.

Winter fashion is all about layering and brings with it opportunity for accessorising with cute hats and scarves too. I was channelling my inner French girl on Friday with my brown knitted beret to complete this casual chic look I put together. I’m living in neutral tones and rich browns this season.

Stopping by our local pub The Mutton to catchup with my parents on Friday evening, I decided to treat myself to an indulgent Baileys Espresso Martini by the fire.

This was the perfect concoction of smooth roasted coffee mixed with sweet creamy Baileys, a delicious drink to sip as I warmed up by the fire.

Saturday soon rolled around and after finishing my weekly house clean, I curled up on the sofa with a book and hot cup of tea. For me January is about self-care and doing things which bring me happiness, not restriction and punishment which is what society has taught us to engage in during this month of the year.

Instead I choose to indulge in the little things like buying fresh flowers for the house and saying yes to a cocktail at the pub. Life’s too short to be denying ourselves anything which might bring us joy.

Date night this weekend we chose to stay in at home and I cooked us a healthy nutritious meal for two. Cod with a white Pinos Gris wine for her, sirloin steak with a red Malbec wine for him, both served with my special crispy roasted new potatoes, stir fried asparagus tips, broccoli and a rocket salad.

I personally love spending time in the kitchen and feeding myself whole foods which I’ve made from scratch. This meal was hearty, nutritious and super yummy, we both finished every last morsel on our plates before cuddling on the sofa and watching a movie.

So lets change the perspective on January being the month of dieting and removing things we actually enjoy from our weekly routines, and instead think about adding things which nourish your mind, body and soul to bring you pleasure and help you thrive throughout the winter season. Whether it’s adding more colourful vegetables to your meals or simply enjoying a glass of wine on a Sunday evening, be kind to yourself this month and don’t let the pressures of society make you think otherwise. Join the self love club babes ❤

Kickstarting New Year; Motivation Tips & Tricks

If like the majority of people you find the start of January a struggling time to get motivated, then I’ve got some tips on how to set realistic goals and take the steps to successfully achieve them.

Whilst being ambitious and moving the goal posts for yourself in the new year is brilliant, it’s key to remember that doing your best looks different every day. So if you have particular fitness aspirations or you are learning a new skill which takes time, there will be positive days when you find yourself feeling really strong or creatively inspired, but inevitably there will also be those periods of time you lack energy or enthusiasm. Just trust the process and be kind to yourself when you’re having one of those dips in motivation because it will return.

Don’t let any obstacles become an excuse for not showing up everyday. For example if your goal is to workout 6 times a week, plan ahead and schedule your workouts, know what exercises or routine you are doing each day in the upcoming week, and have your gym gear out and ready the night before. It’s all about setting yourself up for success.

So ask yourself, what is stopping me from reaching my goals? Break it down and set achievable steps towards making your dreams a reality. The journey won’t be linear and you have to be ready for all the ups and downs along the road, but know exactly what you want, envision getting it, and never give up on yourself; a positive mindset will never fail you.

Go get it girls and lets make 2024 another year of growth, success and fulfilment ❤